Don't take this as a negative against your upcoming marriage but my ex-husband and I did the same when we were married years ago (and no, the length of it wasn't the cause for divorce!
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The reasoning was that marriage shouldn't be a losing of one person's familial identity. I wasn't so fond of my maiden name the second time around though, lol!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
Stephanie
In every man there is something wherein I may learn of him, and in that I am his pupil.--Ralph Waldo Emerson