Hey there Stephanie...umm...my $0.02 on death...if you don't un-attach yourself from the spirit...you'll get sick...and pretty much wanna be with the spirit...You can say that's from personal experience......I had to go to a medicine man for my grandmother whom i didn't let go...she died in a tramatic way...now i mustn't go near funerals or cemetary's or else those feelings will come back...just f.y.i...