I know that the whole negative word thing seems rather silly at first but it really does make a difference. Should and try lack the conviction to do and the possibility that you don't have to and can make excuses not to! It's amazing what a little boost even a minor bit of conviction can do. Definitely adopt the new lingo.

Stephanie

In every man there is something wherein I may learn of him, and in that I am his pupil.--Ralph Waldo Emerson