And easily answered....

Ya gotta want it.

Proper spelling and grammer aren't cool, or rad, or whatever. They totally fail to be awesome. Dude.

You know; like something your parents would use.

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It is hard to convey five-dimensional ideas in a language evolved to scream defiance at the monkeys in the next tree. -- The Science of Discworld III: Darwin's Watch, by Terry Pratchett, Ian Stewart & Jack Cohen