Right on Ritva . Did you read the book ? I Guess at the time that Freud said this , divorce was not as common as it is nowadays , and women hardly had any rights. but to me marriage is a moral commitment as it should have been then and whatever happens one cannot pay off the partner for the years he or she devoted to make the marriage work ; There is not enough money in the world that can give you the spent years back !

Robert LaFrance

A peasant must wait a long time on a hillside with his mouth open , before a roast duck flies in . Chinese proverb